A few notes about the name of this blog... when I was 15/ 16 years old... I came out to my dad... I had been REALLY nervous about it becasue for some reason i thought that he would hate me/ disown me etc. This was completely unsubstantiated... but all i had read were horror stories about coming out to your parents. When I came out to my dad... he said, " Son, don't worry about your Sexuality... worry about your "Paulaity" basically telling me that he didn't care about my sexuality.. as long as I knew who i was.. so in honor of my dad... thats the name of this blog..
Love you dad!